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HAVE YOU EVER WATCHED a Japanese Tea Ceremony?
It’s really nothing special except for one thing. The person
performing the ceremony is paying attention. But that one thing
makes it extraordinary for both the observers and the performer
herself.
Something simple takes place. Someone makes
tea and then someone drinks it. But the spirit in which it is
done makes the difference. Everybody present is paying attention
and not doing anything else. The person making the tea moves
deliberately, unhurried, trying to make each movement perfect.
There’s nothing special about tea.
Anyone can do the same thing doing just about anything.
You can have an American Lunch Ceremony — eat your lunch
deliberately, paying attention to what you’re doing, unhurried,
trying to make each movement in complete awareness.
Try it sometimes when you feel stressed.
You can even do it while you work (American Work Ceremony). If
you have no immediate deadline, do your work for ten minutes
carefully, with full attention on every move, slowly and deliberately.
It’s a nice little change of pace, if nothing else. But
usually there is something else, and that’s why the
Japanese Zen Masters consider the Tea Ceremony as a high art
and a worthy practice.
The deliberate movement clarifies your
mind and sometimes puts you in a state of tranquility. It often
makes you aware that this moment is all there is and all that
needs to be. It’s hard to describe, but you don’t need
a description. Try it and experience it for yourself. It’s
nothing mystical. If anything, it is a more down-to-earth experience
than our usual hustle and bustle because all you’re doing
is paying attention to what you’re doing. Rather than thinking
about yesterday’s golf game or tonight’s dinner, rather
than worrying about something that might happen tomorrow or fuming
about what happened this morning, rather than wishing you were
somewhere else or hoping things change in your future, you’re
just here, now, doing what you’re doing. It is surprising
how seldom we do that.
You can do it anywhere, any time. Try it
right now while you’re reading. Notice your posture, the
sounds in the room, the smells, without trying to change anything.
Notice your feelings — your emotional tone, the sensations
in your stomach, the feeling of your hands and your forehead...
notice the page, the feel of your eyes as they move along the
line, the voice in your head saying these words. Just notice.
Thank you for participating with me in
this American Reading Ceremony.
Slow down your movements once
in awhile
and pay attention. |
