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This is one of "22 virus definitions" (thought-mistakes that cause ineffectiveness and unnecessary negative emotions).

OF COURSE, most of the thought-mistakes fall into the general category of “assuming.” But it is a good thing to look for on its own. Everybody knows assuming is a dangerous business, and everyone does it anyway. It is hard to catch yourself doing it, because of course, you assume what you assume to be true is true. What is there to catch?

Throughout your personal history, some of your biggest mistakes probably stemmed from an assumption you made that was wrong. And throughout human history in general, you can easily see the march of progress as a continual (and accelerating) discovery that one assumption after another was wrong.

The medical treatment of George Washington is a good example. You could say he died of a tragic confidence in assumptions. It started out as a sore throat. Washington had caught a cold. So he was treated with the usual procedure: Bloodletting. Why was that the usual procedure? Because Galen recommended it sixteen hundred years before, and Galen was so well-known and well-respected, and his practices and theories were so well-established, the doctors in Washington’s time assumed Galen must be right.

Of course it didn’t help. In fact, his condition got worse and he began having trouble breathing. He was famous and wealthy, so he was ministered by the “best” doctors. They put ground beetles on his throat to cause blisters (in order to pull out “bad vapors”). Then they gave him laxatives to purge his bowels. They also kept up the bloodletting for several days.

Not surprisingly, Washington went into a coma and then died. He died of assumption.

This article is part of the series, Antivirus For Your Mind.

Author: Adam Khan
author of the books, Principles For Personal Growth and Self-Help Stuff That Works

and creator of the blogs, CrushPessimism.com, and MoodRaiser.com
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